What Women Really Are

As a woman, what do you think about yourself? What happened if we did not exist in this world? Do you think women are not as good as men? Here what women really are.

Are Women Smart?

Gender discrimination has been improved, so women are equal to men. In other words, women can have opportunities to gain knowledge and enhance their careers, just like men. Nowadays, there are more and more female leaders, such as Angela Merkel, Christine Lagarde, Melinda Gates, Mary Barra, Oprah Winfrey, etc. These female leaders have proven that women are smart and capable. They can become great leaders, have successful careers, and empower people around the world.

A smart woman can attract a lot of men because she can share her experience and knowledge with her man and help him become a better person. In addition, she can earn respect from other people. Being smart does not mean that they must know everything. Instead, they are good at doing their jobs and willing to learn new things to improve themselves.

You must keep learning and improving your skills, so you can become the best version of yourself. When you have an opportunity to talk or help other people, especially women, you can use what you have learned to empower and inspire them. You will never know one day you may become a leader due to word-of-mouth and what you have done for others.

Are Women Beautiful?

Taking care of appearance is important because it can bring a lot of opportunities in life. People always judge others by the way they dress. If you do not trust me, do this experiment. First, you dress like a homeless and go to a fancy fashion store, you will experience how people and employees look at you. It is not nice at all. Then, you dress like a rich woman and go to another store, employees will ask you what you need and assist you like a queen. Remember people always judge a book by its cover no matter how they are taught that they should not do it. Therefore, we need to take care of our appearance.

However, it does not mean you always dress like a queen everywhere. You should dress smartly, which means you know how to choose appropriate clothes for certain events. For example, nobody wears a sexy party dress in a business meeting. Similarly, nobody wears a business dress at a party.

In addition, taking care of your appearance does not mean it is the only thing that you care about. Do not let people weigh your smartness with your appearance. Many women do not know how beautiful they are. We are beautiful even when we do not wear fancy clothes and heavy markup. Each of us is naturally beautiful. We dress nicely to help us look better and feel more confident. At the same time, dressing too nicely and wearing too heavy makeup will make you too beautiful. Sometimes too much is not too good. A man may take advantage of you when you dress sexily. However, he may give you an opportunity to work for him when you care about your appearance in a smart way.

Please remember you are beautiful, so do not destroy your natural beauty.

Do Women Deserve Love?

Everyone deserves love, especially women. Women are the same flowers. They are beautiful when they grow up, just like flowers, they blossom when they are mature, which is the most beautiful time of each flower’s life. Some women are like wildflowers because they are so strong when facing difficulties in their lives. No matter what type of “flower” a woman is, she needs to be loved. If people take care of flowers, they will be strong and beautiful. In contrast, if they step on wildflowers, they will become weak and have a difficult time surviving on windy or rainy days. Same as women, they will become powerful and motivated when they have love from people around them.

The best way to get love from others is to love yourself first. When you love yourself, you will become happier (click here to know how to be happy), which can help to attract positive energy, manifest good things, and improve the quality of your life. Your body and mind belong to you. If you do not take care of them, who will? If you do not love them, who will? The answer is nobody because they are busy loving and taking care of theirs.

Women deserve love, but it does not mean we depend on other people’s love. We can create love by ourselves. Loving yourself and sending your love to other people are good ways to express and experience love.

If you are a man, please feel free to share your thoughts about women at the PHORum. If you are a woman, please inspire each other with kind words and actions.