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Hey girls! Are there too many guys hitting on you right now? Are you wondering who is a perfect match for you? If yes, please keep reading because I will share with you some secrets of a happy marriage, which can help you choose your Mr. Right successfully.

He ALWAYS puts you FIRST.

We all have at least one thing to do each day. In my opinion, putting someone first means I do or finish their things before I do or finish mine. Your mom can be an example. There are two pieces of meat. One is big, and the other one is small. Which one do you think your mom will take for herself? Of course, the small one will be on her plate because she wants to give you the best. She thinks about you first and makes sure that you are full. If a man puts you first, he loves you more than himself. No matter how busy he is, he will always have time for you. Therefore, you will not feel like a “queen” in your marriage.

He wants to make you a BETTER person.

Since I got married with my husband, I have achieved a lot. I got more certificates to boost my career. He supports me to come back to college, so I can have a better job and life. When he achieves something in life, he also wants the same for me. He has taught me how to live better and follow my dreams. Without him, I would be a normal woman working two jobs and having no time to think about dreams or help other people. He has made me become a better person with a better mind and heart. I believe if I married to a man who thought that women should stay home and take care of the family, I would be unable to write this post right now.

It can take a lot of time to observe and get to know a man’s personality. If a man thinks that everything is fine now, so he does not need to change, your life may be the same when marrying him. On the other hand, if a man wants to have a better life and thinks about other people, he will likely make you better too.

He ALWAYS says sorry first.

As a married couple, my husband and I sometimes argue due to little things. Although we are both mad, my husband is always a person who says sorry first. No matter he is right or wrong, he always comes to me first. He never wants negative feelings in our relationship, so he puts his ego away. This is what I need to learn from him. I am like fire when arguing.

Imagine if we are both fires, I do not think we could still be together. Therefore, it is important to find a man who always tries to work on the relationship and swipes away negative feelings or things. More importantly, please remember this, if a man can put his ego away when you guys argue, he loves you more than anything in the world because he is afraid to hurt and lose you. This is an example of Yin and Yang – how we are constantly shifting and seeking to balance. Without balance any relationship will falter.

Don’t forget, if you have any secrets of a happy marriage that you would like to share with other people, you can do so in the Diễn Đàn.